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Posted by: Emdad Rahman |
05/03/2007 11:55 |
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Eight year old Connor McCreaddie hits the scales at a mammoth 88 kilograms, almost four times the weight of a child of his own age.
In case you've missed it, Connor was at the centre of a Social Services storm last week after investigating social workers decided that the obese youngster, who recently featured in a television documentary; did not, as yet warrant being placed in care.
Patricia Hewitt's grand scale interference and public backing of the local authority's threats to take Connor away from his home was not a constructive course of action and only added fuel to the fire. Social Services were quick off the mark with the sledgehammer / walnut approach, but one wonders exactly how much support has been offered to young Connor? It would be very interesting to see whether a medical consultation was undertaken by a health consultant as it is very likely that the youngster could be living with Prader-Willi syndrome, a condition which leads to obesity, usually caused by excessive appetite and overeating (hyperphagia).
To be fair, Connor's Mother, Nicola McKeown has seen the light. Trying to be attentive to the dilemma she has encouraged and supported Connor, by helping him to shed nearly 12 kilograms during the last two months Ask any overweight person on their seventy ninth diet regime, and they will explain that this is not an easy achievement.
The media attention heaped on this child would have made many squirm, but never let the welfare of a human being get in the way of a good story. Connor who is displaying symptoms of suffering acute psychological problems has become an obvious target for playground taunts and bullies. His inability to eat less, probably a recognised medical symptom has not been helped by having his bulk featuring on every front page, as well as being the focus of discussion by the butcher, the baker and attractive, tanned and toned news presenters.
Connor's Mother did make a crucial point when she said she had not been given enough expertise and support to reduce his weight. Connor's Mother claims to have tried everything to stop him overeating and something within me says she is telling the truth, even if her comments were prompted by local authority heat on her family. Within her own severely restricted limitations she probably has tried her best, which has proven to be nowhere near enough. As part of collective community responsibility, the finger can and should be pointed at more than just Connor's Mother. Did the school nurse ever raise the issue of obesity with Connor's Mother? Does his school promote a healthy eating programme? Are dinnertimes at school themed towards Jamie Oliver or Billy greaseball's roadside burger joint?
Connor's Mother, (like many parents of overweight children) is not a bad Mother simply for allowing her child to eat excessively. It may be late in the day but it is up to the professionals supporting this family to offer moral, physical and parenting advice and support to them.
Neglect is a prime feature of child abuse and though I agree that affirmative action needs to be taken, taking young Connor away from his family would have been a step too far. It would be far better to enforce a strengthening family’s programme on his mother. She may be of the ilk that believes ensuring her son has plenty to eat is what any loving mother would do. This in turn means that she may need long term counselling to help her overcome the pain she feels when she sees her child spitting out food as well as being in a constant and unhappy state. Educating her and broadening her horizons through classes and meeting people in similar situations would be of great benefit. At the same time it would be wise to invest in regular or weekly sessions for Connor at a clinic for the obese or a nutritionist.
Connor's needs are more than physical at present. The media attention will magnify his problems further. It's easy to forget that he's eight years old and despite his tender years it is likely that he has had to experience and deal with abuse from peers, which has resulted in his self esteem repeatedly taking a real battering.
We live in an era that makes celebrities of real people with real problems and it would not be surprising to see Connor being offered five minutes of fame, featuring in the world's most obese 6 year old competition. Concentrated support for the family will help Connor to shed the excess and will go along way towards improving his self esteem.
Obesity is a national issue, and if through raising national awareness, an eight year old can become the poster boy for the fight against excessive eating then a lot of good would have come out of this sorry episode. |
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By Anisa on
05/03/2007 21:34 |
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What kind of parent can pose with their kid after creating such a problem. Mum must see this as a surefire way to get rich quick.
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By On the fence... on
06/03/2007 21:01 |
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Did you see the fat Bermudan cricketer who gave the England a scare yesterday. All is not lost Connor!
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By Kay on
06/03/2007 21:02 |
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Funny you should support him Em!. You must be the fattest marathon runner ever.
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By Padlock on
07/03/2007 18:15 |
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I heard on LBC yesterday morning of a twenty stone battleship. You'd be hard pressed to get through her days food in a week. Obesity is an issue. Having read this piece I ask the question; Why so much imbalance with obese kids here and in the US, Canada etc, whilst there are others starving in Africa?
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By Rashida on
07/03/2007 20:15 |
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I think the Mother has to take some blame, but like the article say's, has anyone wondered if the poor kid has a medical condition. the family are at the lower end of the social ladder and Social Services would be much better advised to provide better support to his Mother. It seems easy to just blame her, but the family have also been failed by the welfare state and so called professionals posing as support.
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By Fiona on
08/03/2007 18:13 |
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We live in a world where size zero is seen to be the norm. Individuals kill themselves trying to be like the so called 'immortals' on the catwalk. Those who can'tare often resigned to letting loose. It's like the film The Perfect Storm, when Captain Clooney tries to overcome the wave of biblical proportions, it's just one obstacle too far. The results in dire consequences. Could we have a society without the pressure to confirm to stick insect gruesome stereotypes?
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By Scapegoat on
08/03/2007 19:41 |
I'm sooory! Have I missed something here? I'm a Social Worker in Hackney. I'd be damned if I took the can for a (sweet) kid like Connor. Sure they need support but the buck ultimately stops with Mumsy.
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By Hanif on
09/03/2007 17:40 |
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You hit the nail on the head. Punish Mum if she refuses help. Your article mentions that he has lost weight. I read about the stomach staple 60 stone lady who died of a heart attack. I hope this is a wake up call for evryone in this predicament.
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By Umm Shaabaan on
10/03/2007 20:56 |
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A real pity. This is child abuse. Don't forget you mention neglect is abuse and is often overlooked.
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By Sarach on
10/03/2007 20:58 |
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Patricia hewitt? Typical glitzy, glamorous, New Labour politician eh! Make sounds when the cameras are rolling. What about the health picture nationwide?
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By Ki on
11/03/2007 15:01 |
I think we should be careful in equating allowing a child to be obese with child abuse or violence against children. The later circumstances warrant taking the child away, the former shouldn't. I dont believe that taking the child away from the parents is a solution in most cases and has other far reaching consequences.
there must be other ways of helping the child & mother, while keeping them a family.
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By Food for thought on
11/03/2007 20:42 |
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Poor kid. Trailer trash ma must be yipping with delight at the possibilities of the ill gotten trappings of recent media publicity.
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By Khalil on
13/03/2007 17:29 |
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Emdad. Maybe you could mentor Connor! A change in career might be good. You should team up with this connor. You don't have to be 'overweight' and helpless. You're the perfect example of . I'd like to let the readers of this blog know know that I'm dead know as the Author will kill me for embarassing him on the public forum...
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By Dina on
13/03/2007 21:07 |
I agree with the general consensus. Taking the child away has negative and far reaching repercussions.
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By Jagdeep Singh sonu on
14/03/2007 20:03 |
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A good article Emdad, and a change from the usual stuff that does the rounds (not to say that those topics are less important). If Connor was in the US he'd be normal. There needs to be a cap on fast food or failing that, there needs to be better investment in healthcare and advice.
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By Afia on
14/03/2007 20:06 |
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What incentive do people have to go healthy. 2 hot wings and chips = 99p. Fruit, organic or not is expensive. Tesco were recently caught up in a 50% off fruit and veg scam when eagle eyed punters spotted that prices had in fact been severely hiked up prior to cuts. Cut the price of fruit and veg, a little publicity and Bob's your uncle!
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By Brendan on
14/03/2007 22:20 |
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Education, education, education!
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By i hurt you coz i love you! on
15/03/2007 18:58 |
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Ahh! Emdad! We know your reasons for this. Do you sympathise with connor, strike a chord?
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By Dr Frankenstein on
15/03/2007 19:01 |
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As with adult obesity, any factors that cause energy intake to be greater than the energy expended can lead to obesity. The possible causes of childhood obesity include. It's not just eating, inactivity is the main factor here. Less consoles, more outdoor activities I say
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By Abigail on
15/03/2007 21:27 |
Physically inactive pastimes such as watching TV or playing computer games should be limited to around two hours a day or an average of 14 hours a week. Children should be encouraged to be selective about what they watch and concentrate only on the programmes they really enjoy. Food can take on emotional significance when used to comfort or reward children. Parents shouldn't use food to comfort children - (give attention, hugs and listen). Avoid using food as a reward as this can reinforce the idea of food as a source of comfort. Instead of having a fast-food meal to celebrate a good school report, for example, buy a gift, go to the cinema, or have a friend to stay overnight. Prevention. Some research suggests that breast feeding your baby may reduce childhood obesity, although the evidence is not conclusive. Other studies indicate that smoking during pregnancy increases the risk of having an overweight child.
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By All in a day blogger on
16/03/2007 19:15 |
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Well said Abigail
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By optimist on
17/03/2007 19:50 |
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That's the first time I heard of Prader-Willi syndrome, scary.
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By Rashida on
18/03/2007 17:30 |
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Give thema break. They're on the right track. The kids losing weight. No need to use a sledgehammer!
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By Ossie Osborne on
19/03/2007 16:50 |
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Appropriate subject for you to pick matey! Peace to all!
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By MK on
20/03/2007 17:57 |
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Emdad, me old salt! good to see you supporting lost causes .... agaiin! I agree though, poor Connor, what a life. He'll grow up to be a sad and angry human if he doesn't get support.
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By Mac Woman on
20/03/2007 18:00 |
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I think I'll join MK in commenting bruv!. at least you picked a different subject, one that is vital, relevant yet different from the usual, expected stories. ignore the cruel weight comments buddy and keep up the good work.
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By Ambrosini on
21/03/2007 13:32 |
Well done for highlighting this.
In several human cultures, plumpness was associated with physical attractiveness, strength, and fertility. Some of the earliest known cultural artifacts, known as Venus figurines, are pocket-sized statuettes representing an obese female figure. Although their cultural significance is unrecorded, their widespread use throughout pre-historic Mediterranean and European cultures suggests a central role for the obese female form in magical rituals, and suggests cultural approval of (and perhaps reverence for) this body form. This is most likely due to their ability to easily bear children and survive famine. A large, well-fed body was occasionally considered a symbol of wealth and social status in cultures prone to food shortages or famine. Well into the early modern period in European cultures, it often served this role. But as food security was realized, it came to serve more as a visible signifier of "lust for life", appetite, and immersion in the realm of the erotic. This was especially the case in the visual arts, such as the paintings of Rubens (1577–1640), whose regular use of the full female figures gives us the description Rubenesque for plumpness. Obesity can also be seen as a symbol within a system of prestige. "The kind of food, the quantity, and the manner in which it is served are among the important criteria of social class. In most tribal societies, even those with a highly stratified social system, everyone - royalty and the commoners - ate the same kind of food, and if there was famine everyone was hungry. With the ever increasing diversity of foods, food has become not only a matter of social status, but also a mark of one's personality and taste."
People's attitudes are paramount. We live in a world where even in cartoons, obesity is often used for comic effect.
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This was especially the case in the visual arts, such as the paintings of Rubens (1577–1640), whose regular use of the full female figures gives us the description Rubenesque for plumpness. Obesity can also be seen as a symbol within a system of prestige. "The kind of food, the quantity, and the manner in which it is served are among the important criteria of social class. In most tribal societies, even those with a highly stratified social system, everyone - royalty and the commoners - ate the same kind of food, and if there was famine everyone was hungry. With the ever increasing diversity of foods, food has become not only a matter of social status, but also a mark of one's personality and taste."
People's attitudes are paramount. We live in a world where even in cartoons, obesity is often used for comic effect.'. This email was sent on 9/6/2010 7:58:35 PM. http://www.openmindsblogspot.com:80/HOME/tabid/36/EntryID/39/language/en-US/Default.aspx">
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By Dost! on
21/03/2007 13:41 |
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Em! Is this your long lost bro! ahhh! That's your old name, EMDAD MCCREADDIE
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By michaela on
21/03/2007 13:57 |
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Mum is a disgusting piece of work. She seems very proud, prostituting herself for the cameras. Darn git, gives a bd name to all.
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By blogga Don on
21/03/2007 21:39 |
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What is Ambrosia on?
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By Lucinda on
22/03/2007 12:20 |
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Well done Emdad, ignore the jibes from the sad losers
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By Guls on
22/03/2007 19:24 |
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Hey Emdad, when your done doing the MARATHON, wih your MARATHONG let the G-man know so we would resurface the Highway
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By emdad rakim on
28/12/2007 21:02 |
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hahaa my name is the same as yours ok your is cRAP
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